That powerful urge to make your man's life better

Glad to be back! Laughing out loud(before I begin to feel like one talk show guru) Well, I dey try,aint?(wink).I got this mail recently from a friend that I would like to call Bob and Mimi(not their real names) and u know ,(throat clearing) it kinda came in the nick of time bcos 'yours faithfully' is in a new season,if u know what I mean, so I really wanna share this with you and I am really ,seriously in dire need of your comments ,constructive criticisms and suggestions...Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dear Bolanle,Women have a powerful urge to make their man's life better! My friend, the author Bob Grant, has written about this. Bob writes: "When a woman feels bonded to a man, she has a natural desire to please him and make his life more wonderful. She may offer to help him dress better or perhaps clean up after him at his house. She is merely trying to add color, style, and more ambiance to his life. "If he is in pain or distress, it is just natural for her to want to ease his pain through whatever means she can. She delights in seeing him released from his pain. "All her intuition is focused on 'What can I do to be helpful to him?'"She is also more likely to become attuned to his wishes and his moods. She might anticipate what he wants. "This is an empathetic skill that few men master - or, to be honest, really even want to."It might seem that men would appreciate this characteristic and never want to leave [a woman like this]. After all, what could be better than having a woman in your life who is trying to please you? "For a man, the problem arises when a woman overuses this gift."Bob Grant says that women desire to do TWO things:1. We want to create beauty.2. We want to take pain away.The sheer power of our feelings can play a huge role in how we act with the man (even the NEW man) in our lives. For a woman, the feelings are so very strong, and it seems certain that their guy would respond lovingly and gratefully to so much love.But all too often, a woman has taken the relationship much farther in her mind than a man has - yet. This leads to being frustrated, hurt, and confused when a man does not respond.Things get even more upsetting when this same man may take up with a new girlfriend or wife who appears to not care one bit about his needs. So why is he madly in love with her, after all you did, and after how well you know him - and she doesn't? This may have happened to you - or to friends of yours. What's wrong with this picture? Should you deny those glorious feelings of wanting to show your love, of wanting to give? No - that would be denying yourself. The key is to know how soon and how much to give. You also need to know how to give so that men can receive your giving, instead of becoming distant when you give.An email from a reader said in part:"Dear Mimi,"I was that woman. I tried to please my guy too fast and too soon, and I did everything under the sun for him, even lent him money to pay for bills and help him..."
--"Lacey" (not her real name)Dear Lacey, Your giving nature can be an asset in the right situation and at the right time. But just as you already realize, trying to give so much in order to win his love just backfires. You don't want to cause a man to see you as desperate and willing to do anything just to keep him around. Hang in there and keep reading - in time and with lessons like the one you've experienced, you'll soon have instincts which will protect your heart (and your wallet).Men respect a woman who takes care of herself - in every way. Thanks for sharing this.
From another reader:Dear Mimi,"I am one of your new readers and I do like the way you put your words. This one is me: too much giving. It's not that I do it for him to love me more or to keep him; it's always been me since I was a little girl. I love to share and give to anyone for a reason and for no reason."--
"Darla"Dear Darla,Thanks for that email. Giving is important to me too. We women need to take time to examine how we give, when, and how things work out for us when we give. One of the most important ways to make giving work is to choose your recipient wisely, whether we're talking about men or any other situation.What do one do to play 'safe' whilst trying to 'save' a relationship?! Please tell me...
Cheers!
Bollarnle.

All Hail Monica Peters!©

Oouch!Forgive me,I actually mean hi!. Now you see what terrible fellow Monica Peters really is. Did I hear someone trying to ask if it is male or female name? Well, u will av to take ur pick after now.But this one thing I know,Monica Peters come visiting only ladies! And gawd! she sucks(guess I already gave the answer away). Anyway, this particular visit of Monica Peters to my domicile at exactly 15:00 GMT on the 24th of November didnt really come as a suprise because though she gate crashes sometimes,she comes at particular days each month that you will only be wise to get ready for her except of course if you are expecting Benjamin Andrew Barbara Yvonne - otherwise known as B.A.B.Y.! So,since I knew that I wasnt expecting one(yet), so I then av to brace up for Monica Peters real quick again this month just like every other one!What a bully she is,she comes with kicks,aches, pains, shoves,slaps,cramps,and all you can ever imagine! So far it has got to do with discomfort...(sobs)As I write this,she is giving me her stuff but av been able to subdue her considerably (I believe) with some cute looking white looking stuff called,''pain killers''. So you bet she is just as gentle as can be bearable for a damsel like me to be relavant in the office at this point in time!Why do I wanna write to hail her? You may wanna ask? Well, with the diarrhoea that she constantly comes along with and the mood swing and all ( and the fact that she took away my sleep, took over my bed and made me lay on the floor of my room!),I can only attribute ...haaaaaaaa....sorry,she hooked me just again...gimme some minutes to get free from this friend enemy...Aiight ,I feel better now...Ok ,where was I? Yes, I would hail her bcos she has got some benefits that she does to my system everyday. The science guys say that this is actually what goes on and why she has to come visiting every month:
DefinitionMenstruation(or Monica Peters if you like) refers to the monthly discharge through the vagina of the blood and tissues that were laid down in the uterus in preparation for pregnancy(note that- if you wanna av Benjamin. Andrew .Barbara .Yvonne. - otherwise known as B.A.B.Y., then you will av to av Monica Peters!).
DescriptionThe cyclic production of hormones that culminates in the release of a mature egg (ovum) is called the menstrual cycle, which begins during puberty and ends at menopause.
The first menstrual cycle is called menarche.Hormones that control the menstrual cycle are produced by the hypothalamus, pituitary gland, and ovaries. The beginning of a menstrual cycle is marked by the maturation of an egg in an ovary and preparation of the uterus (womb) to establish pregnancy. Menstruation occurs when pregnancy has not been achieved.The menstrual cycle is divided into four phases and is, on average, 28 days long (21–45 days). The onset of menstruation, called a period, monthly, menses, or menstrual period, begins a new menstrual cycle and is considered day one. This first phase usually lasts five days. Menstruation occurs in response to drops in the level of the hormone progesterone. It is estimated that a woman will have 500 menstrual periods in her lifetime.Oh Lord, 500 Monica Peters!(what?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!).
The second phase of the menstrual cycle is called the follicular or proliferative phase. The ovary, in response to increasing levels of follicle stimulating hormone, begins the egg maturation process. Although 10–20 eggs begin to develop within follicles of the ovaries, usually only one egg reaches maturity. Follicles are clusters of cells that encase a developing egg, hence the name "follicular phase." Developing follicles release the hormone estrogen that stimulates the lining of the uterus, called the endometrium, to grow (proliferate) in preparation to receive an embryo (an egg that has been fertilized and begun dividing) and establish pregnancy. This is why the second phase is also called the "proliferative phase." This phase usually lasts through day 13.
The ovulation phase occurs in response to a surge in luteinizing hormone and is marked by the release of a mature egg from the follicle. Ovulation usually occurs on day 14.
The fourth phase is called the luteal, secretory, premenstrual, or postovulatory phase, and usually lasts from days 15–28. During this phase, the empty follicle, now called the corpus luteum, releases the hormone progesterone which further prepares the uterus for implantation of an embryo. The endometrium thickens because of cell growth, changes in blood vessels and glands, and increases in fluid. If pregnancy does not occur, the fall in progesterone levels initiates the onset of a new menstrual cycle. However, if pregnancy does occur, progesterone levels remain high and the endometrium is not shed.
Additional Info:In the United States, menstruation typically begins at 12.8 years of age in Caucasian girls and 12.4 years of age for African American girls. Factors that help to dictate the age at which menarche occurs include race, mother's age at menarche, nutritional status, body fat, as well as climate and elevation. Studies have shown that a body fat level of 17% is necessary for menstruation to begin.Women who live together or work in close proximity tend to find that their cycles begin to coincide. During the menstrual cycle, the body releases hormones called pheromones, which may signal surrounding women's cycles to begin.Puberty signals the maturation of a young woman's reproductive hormones. As a girl reaches puberty, the pituitary gland in the brain starts to produce the hormones that signal the ovaries to begin functioning. The interaction between these hormones and the hormones estrogen and progesterone causes the lining of the uterus to swell and thicken in anticipation of a fertilized egg. If the egg is not fertilized, the lining is discharged through the vagina, resulting in menstrual bleeding.
So, you see what goes on in you every other month! How remarkable! How wow! little wonder you sure av more understanding of life situations and a broader one at that. There is so much that goes in inside of you! You are no ordinary person,Woman! You are a being that is carefully, painstankingly, seriously wired by the creator! I dare say that you are complicated such that you require so much care and understanding of who you really are (from the maker) to totally get His best for you! Feel me? Not just second best,but the number 1 best! Monica Peters is sure not an enemy in all totality,there is still some good in her. The sculptor,potter( if you like),of the heaven and earth,has asked that she comes round to make things work in your beautifully crafted body every other month in preparation for that great assignment of bringing forth! I really used to hate her but not until I GOT the revelation of who and what she stands for-like a means to an end and not an end in itself-feel me?,I began to appreciate the beauty of the whole drama...
As I finish this,I can only wait for the last man standing to come quickly(wink) and in His time. As we explore the journey of the(throat clearing) together! shhh... hope no one is reading this part o''I have written some stuff about the need for my own 'd**k' (Oh Lord,av mercy!, am still born again o& I promise to go for confession on Sunday in dad's church!I promise-all I ask for is my own and u bet that isnt too much to ask now? or is it? I just avnt summoned up enough courage to put the poem up.
Afterall,some married peeps av said that Monica Peters gets weak and in fact loses her power of pain,cramps,and kicks when one is married! Mum say so too!(wink) So, I berra believe it ... and hey! u berra believe it too.And just in case you are like me ,waiting patiently for the tall,dark,handsome(not compulsory),anoited(mandatory),appointed(important),intelligent(necessity),rich(whether physically or spiritually-so far he sells me a vision that he is ready to follow),then hear what the prophet is saying to the church,''YOU ARE WORTH THE WAIT''.
Hang in there some little more...ooouc... h...
Leave me na, u sef?...lol!By the way, I do hope she goes away soon enough so that I can eat some more chocs and sweets and all. I kinda hate the seriuosness that she comes with! Besides, on a more serious note now o, I have a party on Saturday, abeg carry go o bcos I really need to 'free' myself that day and not keep checking my backside and all to be sure that there arent some sudden rush that will make me blush!And whether you like it or not, am wearing the white pants!
Monica Peters, I hail you...
Bollarnle. ©
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Congratulations,Martin Luther KIng, it is you I celebrate!©

Ladies and Gentlemen, I bring to your 'reading' ,the speech that heralded the coming of a new America (we now celebrate). I advise that you read through carefully and rather painstankigly,to be able to get the spirit behind it...I honestly feel it isnt that of trying to pay back for all that has been meted out to the blacks,I feel it is a kinda -of-show-them-how-it-is -being-done! Whether you are black,white,yellow,confused(lol), u sure can make a difference! That was what he talked about... feel me? Please understand that and take it slow... Have fun reading this again and again...I personally cant tire of the speech.

I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we've come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.In a sense we've come to our nation's capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the "unalienable Rights" of "Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note, insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked "insufficient funds."But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. And so, we've come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice.We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of Now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God's children.It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro's legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. And those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. And there will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.But there is something that I must say to my people, who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice: In the process of gaining our rightful place, we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone.And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead.We There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, "When will you be satisfied?" We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their self-hood and robbed of their dignity by a sign stating: "For Whites Only." We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until "justice rolls down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream."¹cannot turn back.There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, "When will you be satisfied?" We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their self-hood and robbed of their dignity by a sign stating: "For Whites Only." We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until "justice rolls down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream."¹I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. And some of you have come from areas where your quest -- quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed. Let us not wallow in the valley of despair, I say to you today, my friends.And so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream.

It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.

"I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of "interposition" and "nullification" -- one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight; "and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together."This is our hope, and this is the faith that I go back to the South with.With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith, we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith, we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.And this will be the day -- this will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with new meaning:My country 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrim's pride, From every mountainside, let freedom ring! And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true.And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire.Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York.Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania. Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado.Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California.But not only that:Let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia.Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee.Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi.From every mountainside, let freedom ring.And when this happens, when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual:Free at last! Free at last!Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!

Obo ii bo bhi ebi ole le en©

Meaning,''a NATIVE DOCTOR DOESNT CONSULT HIS ORACLE CONCERNING THAT WHICH HE KNOWS''I have been aving sleepless nights (again) and it was just last night that I was able to sleep soundly. I av been aving so many thoughts come to my mind. I guess I av been able to disect the issue, diagnose and am sure of what I would av you comment on. As I was writing this, friend & I were aving a talk and when he asked how I was doing and I replied thus,'I am tired,anxious,giddy,restless, etc'. Now, that was one thing I dread doing;tellling when u arnt asked or telling and not really sure if d person really wanted u to bore him with stuffs! But I did all d same. I also tried to quickly say no be bele I carry sha o. And because the guy too sabi grammar, he began to analyse the definition of all dat I had said was wrong or right (take ur pick) . tired=u re overworked & needs rest , anxious, giddy, restless,anxious=u re expectant & not sure when or howgiiddy:feeling slightly sick and unable to balance, because everything seems to be moving ;dizzyness=either from hunger or .Well, I confirmed to him that he sure was right about the definitions. And men! my beloved friend statred getting statistical, more analytical ,and of course more grammatical on me!I just tried to be polite and not ask him to stop boring me with all d details but as God wld av it, mon ami figured that I was bored! Men, dat guy is my friend indeed and if no be say he don marry, I for just ask am to marry me quick quick!He too sabi me jare!I feel so awful at the mo and it has been lingering for too long such dat I know I wld be needing your help! My reason and point actually for putting this up...See, for very few people who know me, I am sure one of the things they wld say about me is d truth dat I av a problem with hiding my feelings. Recently, av had quite alot of experiences dat are kinda challenging me and( though am not yet registered in dat school of thought )I am contemplating doing so. The school of thought that wants to keep stuffs to themselves and wldnt wanna share.(By d way, I used to be dat way.) Not from being me per say, but to just keeping mute but even as I try to finish dat statement on keeping mute,hear wat the Illustrated Dictionary of Esan Langauge has to say,''odin ii talo,ota ri ole bhi unu''- ( although speechless,the mute has something to say!). Then, u bet that doesnt live me with any choice other than to say something even in my state.I have had my share(fair) of quite some measure of pains in this one life. I have been through such and such ,so I identify basically with that as well. Well, to be fair on the good sides, I can say without an iota of doubt that God has been good to me,I can not over emphasize how really good He has been to me.He sure has been. He has taken&saved me from so much that if u get me started on it,I may not really drive home my point(s) exactly...N.B:Does anyone understand how difficult it is for a christain to be truthful and not faith' ful'? U feel dat part of calling a spade a spade or berra still, caling a problem a problem& and not calling it a challenge? This of course brings to mind a particular phase in my life-wanna read it? I will tell u(wink). Last year, I completed a course in Leadership at the Daystar Leadership Academy(DLA) . At d Advanced level, we av such and such groups that u may join in but that is if d group u want 2 join isnt filled up,in dat case, u will av to join anoda, yours sincerly walked with her eyes opened and her brains intact into the problem- solving group! To think dat at dat time I had almost everything dat cld go wrong ,go wrong!I was really aving it bad such dat at a point I felt jinxed! Yeah, I went into dat group with an assurance& it was to give all those problems, d solutuions dat they require. I walked into dat group with my brians fired up and ready to let God do His part and I do mine! I walked into it! and peeps, I sure got wat I was looking for. maybe some of the things we learnt have prompted me to share this with you ,I dont really know, but one thing I know is dat I require HELP! hello, anyone with me on this?Please dont try to think am not so sure that God is and dat He can handle all issues but hey permit me to tell you this in this manner. Feel me?Again, a part of me is saying, u dont want anybody to read this, do u? Dont worry, I might delete it later if am sober about this but at d mo ,am not.Recently, a friend asked me how I was doing and when I decided to realy tell him how I was doing... To my dismay, he said to me,''no, I dont mean that you should tell me , I dont really want to hear it ,I just asked as a form of greeting''. Immediately, something gave way inside of me. May I add taht I no be oyinbo wey be say them dey cry at every ''supposed ' verbal abuse but truth be told, this one really hit me. By d way, av also had some measure of verbal abuse but it sure remins a part in history and at d mo,I only regard any latest development as being entitled to ur opinion' Not as a form of defence machanism but as a way of saying to precious me that I wolud not carry on waht does not belong to me! And what is more? I av also come to know taht I and only me,av the will power to feel the way I wanna feel. I cant control wat others feel about me ,I can only control mine! But somehow this 'aloofness',' indifference','lackadaisical' approach to the institution of friendship got me really thinking! It sure hit me so hard. I understand taht we humans are all susceptible to mistakes but I jsut want to be clear on this one.Back to my gist, when he said that, I felt a dry bitter taste in my mouth! I felt bile!It was a case of 'Bolanle wanted to call out her shock, but the incoherent cry turned in her throat into a spurt of stomach bile'. I felt pained,my heart began to pound so fast ,I was so hurt and am sure it must av been once dat I felt dat way before-when my dad passed on... I recall I was asked not to cry, so I was trying to please all d folks who said I shouldnt. Just when I was getting to really know him ,he was murdered and someone said I shdlnt cry?!I just swallowed hard and no matter wat anyone said or did, I just stared at them. I guess this was d same way I felt again that day but d only difference was dat I knew dat crying in dis case wld be a worthless venture. This fellow had said wat he wanted to.'' I didnt ask to know ,I just wanted to greet you the way I did my other friends!'' Maybe, am being too serious here, or too 'up -tight' and holding on to wat isnt really worth it. But I sincerly wanna ask you, please tell me. What do u mean when u ask how someone is fairing? Is it really a form of greeting? Does it really mean that it isnt supposed to be detailed,I mean a detailed response isnt really required? right or wrong? pls tell. I really need to. Also when you say,good morning, good afternoon,good nite etc wat do u mean? What does 'how do you do? ' mean. I dont need to know so as to help my forgiveness journey with this 'supposed' friend bcos I already av. And to tell u. I think I appreciate the fellow's sincerity but this is why I av to know: 1. so as to avoid such ' bile -feelings' in the near future2. to really get to greet in such a manner (if it turns out right and you are able to convince me)3. to understand how e-freindship, e-greeting,e-mannerism and all ''e-s'' really work. I sincerly am in dire need of your contributions. This is partly what I feel at the mo.I also feel kinda sick...pls dont tell me to see a doc bcos I wont! but I am sure I feel kinda emotionally drained too. From missing someone to loving someone to talking to another to all of dat! (lol). Am not sure if anyone feels me sha o!(wink)-lol!I am the herbalist in my case and I tell you, I really dont need to consult 'my' oracle, (all I need do is wait some more) I sure know where&how the thing dey do me. However, ladies and gentlemen, I speak of the latter and not the former . I still require your contributions... please!
OMOBOLANLE FASOKUN©